Flirtexting:How To Text Your Way To His Heart

With all the commotion surrounding Anthony Weiner and his private photos “accidentally” being sent to Twitter, not to mention the other “accidental” leak of nude photos of VH1 Basketball Wives’ star Jennifer Williams, it seems that maybe they could have used the help of authors Debra Goldstein and Olivia Baniuszewicz, who together wrote the book Flirtexting: How To Text Your Way To His Heart.

This book shares with you valuable tips on how to avoid mishaps like these. Flirtexting (flirting via text message) teaches readers how to manipulate the text, why to reply and how to save themselves from sending the right text to the wrong person. I was sent some tidbits from the book to share with you:

What is Flirtexting?
Flirtexting is what you do in the beginning stages of a relationship to build a connection.

What is Sexting?
Sexting is sending suggestive flirtexts that are bold and blunt and used to spice up an existing relationship.


  • Sexts should be used by mature adults in a committed relationship to avoid risky backlash
  • Stay classy by sending simple sexts telling him what you want to do when you see him later, or what you plan on wearing
  • Use the casual and safe environment of text to forgo shyness by sexting to reveal your fantasies
  • Spark fire in a long distance relationship with an exciting bedtime sext
  • Send a flirtext to spice up an existing relationship during work
  • Less is more, send sexy photos of new lingerie or a picture of your legs to get him aroused


  • Never include your face in a naked photo text
  • Avoid your kids seeing these photos by deleting them immediately from your phone after sending them
  • Don’t reveal everything in a text message exchange, leave him wanting more
  • Stay away from racy photos  unless you’re in a serious relationship to avoid unwanted leaks and criticism

You Should Know:

  • Guys have said that they will often test girls by sending them a sext to see how they will respond.
  • Nothing is going to happen if you refuse to take it all off for a sext, except for maybe gaining more respect from the person asking you for it
  • Unlike phone sex, you don’t need to be anywhere private to send a sexy text
  • Sexts don’t have to be photo texts

Flirtexting: How To Text Your Way To His Heart can be purchased on You can also follow Flirtexting on Facebook and Twitter. Also be sure to visit the website


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